ISAIAH 43:2- 4  WHEN THOU PASSEST THROUGH THE WATERS, I WILL BE WITH THEE;

             AND THROUGH THE RIVERS, THEY SHALL NOT OVERFLOW THEE:  WHEN THOU WALKEST THROUGH THE FIRE,

             THOU SHALT BE BURNED; NEITHER SHALL THE FLAME KINDLE UPON THEE.  FOR I AM THE LORD THY GOD,

             THE HOLY ONE OF ISRAEL, THY SAVIOUR:  I GAVE EGYPT FOR THY RANSOM, ETHIOPIA AND SEBA FOR THEE. 

             SINCE THOU WAST PRECIOUS IN MY SIGHT, THOU HAST BEEN HONOURABLE, AND I HAVE LOVED THEE:

             AND PEOPLE FOR THY LIFE.

 

Who Are We?

W E L C O M E

W   -  Proverbs 4:7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom.

           And in all your getting get understanding

E     -  Proverbs 4:8 Exalt her, and she will promote you; she will bring

           you honor, when you embrace her.

L    -  I Cor. 13:8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies,

          they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease,

          whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.

C    -  Matthew 11:28 Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden,

          and I will give you rest…

O   -  Psalm 107:8 Oh that men would give thanks to the Lord for

          his goodness, and his wonderful works to the children of men!

M  -  Jude 1:2  Mercy, peace, and love be multiplied to you.

E   -   Psalm 100:4 Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into

          his courts with praise, be thankful to him, and bless his name.

MISSION

This ministry will be a place where women can come to refresh and renew their spirits after exposure negative opposition during their day or at some point in their lives.  Women should be able to share with other women their experiences and how they dealt with it.  Through this dialogue, women with similar experiences to equip themselves with the spiritual guidance to get through their dilemmas.  My goal is that every woman who visits this website, no matter how strong the struggle maybe, or how ferocious the fight, you have got to take a stand.  We want to stand with you as your sister in Christ, your guardian angel, or as your prayer partner whatever it takes to get you to that final destiny in your life.

 

PURPOSE

When we look at the word solitude, dictionary describes it as silence, retirement, and isolation.  This web-site is designed and intended to promote a positive and different type of silence, and isolation, but yet remain anonymous, because we as women do need some ”Me“ time.   “Me” time is when you can be selfish and think only of yourself just for a moment, in other words it is about me, me, and me.   What is wrong with that, even Jesus got away from the hustle and bustle of people and spent some time alone with his Father. Women go through some issues in their life that they keep inside of their selves, which eat away at their inner spirit like a cancer; sometimes because they think that people will judge them.  I just want to encourage you that your problems or circumstances do not define you. This web-site is STRICTLY for people who really want to get the help they need, that they may not otherwise admit or share their experiences with anyone else, because you are certainly going to find someone that share the same concerns, issues, and dilemmas as you.  I know that I cannot control privacy on this web-site, but I trust that everyone is matured enough to respect the privacy of each other.  You do not have to give your name or identify yourself, unless you want to discuss a private matter that needs attention right away, then I would need pertinent information to better serve your needs and to do a follow up to make sure your needs are met.

WOMEN THAT WILL TELL THEIR STORY AND SHARE THEIR TESTIMONY HOW THEY CAME OUT OF THEIR SITUATION WITH A PRAISE, WENT THROUGH THE FIRE AND SWAM THRU THE WATER, AND WON THE OLYMPIC MEDAL OF BEATING THE DEVIL AT HIS OWN RACE.

A WOMAN THAT SLEPT IN THE WOODS WITH THE WOLVES AND LIVE TO TELL THE STORY OF HOW GOD BROUGHT HER FIGHT.

WOMEN THAT LOST EVERYTHING FROM THEIR JOBS, THEIR POSSESSIONS, THEIR HUSBANDS AND THEIR SELF WORTH AND BECAME A NO MATTER WHAT WOMAN, THAT CAN’T QUIT, WILL RISE AGAIN BECAUSE THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT SHE GOT TO SHARE HER STORY WITH.

WOMEN THAT THE DOCTOR SAY WE CAN’T DO ANYTHING MORE FOR YOU, SHE LOOK DEATH RIGHT IN THE EYE, AND DECLARE THAT SHE SHALL LIVE AND NOT DIE.

OUR DECLARATION

 I DECLARE AND DECREE THIS DAY WOMEN WE ARE WARRIORS, WE ARE ARMED AND DANGEROUS, WE ARE MORE THAN A CONQUEROR, WE GOT THE WORD OF GOD ON THE INSIDE OF US AND WE WILL NOT BACKED DOWN FROM THE DEVIL‘S ARMIES, WE WON‘T BACKED DOWN FROM THE DARKNESS OF THE EVIL ONES OR PRINCIPALITIES IN DARK PLACES, OR SPIRITUAL WICKNESS. WE ARE ARMED WITH BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUS, SHOES OF PEACE, SHIELD OF FAITH, HELMET OF SALVATION, THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT AND POWERFUL PRAYER, THE GOD ON THE INSIDE OF ME IS MORE POWERFUL THAN A TWO-EDGED SWORD AND EVERYTHING THAT IS NOT OF GOD HAS GOT TO VACATE THE PREMISES, I SERVE NOTICE TO YOU NOW SATAN, YOU ARE POWERLESS AND DEFEATED RIGHT NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS.  AS A MATTER OF FACT TAKE ALL YOUR WOUNDS, HURTS, HUMILIATION, DISAPPOINTMENTS, BROKEN HEARTS, REJECTION, AND MOLESTATION WITH YOU, I AM GIVING IT ALL BACK TO YOU, YOU ARE HISTORY AND I FOUND A NEW SATISFACTION, I AM IN LOVE WITH A NEW FRIEND WHO LOVES ME SO MUCH AND HAS GIVEN ME MY WORTH BACK,  GIVEN ME MY JOY BACK, GIVEN ME MY PEACE BACK, WHO HAS GIVEN ME MY WHOLENESS BACK, GIVEN ME MY DIGINITY BACK AND I NEVER KNEW LOVE LIKE I KNOW NOW WITH HIM, WHAT IS HIS NAME IT IS  “JESUS”  MY LORD AND MY SAVIOR, WHO SAVED ME FROM ALL YOUR DESTRUCTION, YOUR BETRAYAL, YOUR CHEATING, YOUR FILTHY THOUGHTS AND YOUR MIND.

 I HAVE BEEN CLEANSE AND PURIFIED BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS AND NOW I CAN SEE MY DESTINY AND THE PATHS THAT HE HAS CHOSEN FOR ME.

You could possibly call this "NETWORK" a communication line, prayer line, help line and not a gossiping line, negative comments and attacking people characters. This network is strictly to resolve people issues that really need help, it is also a networking of finding new friends. My goal is that women of this world need to know there is a beautiful, worthy, joyous person deep down inside of them, and enjoy that person.  It is my desire that every woman who visits this network knows that we are able to assist you with difficult situations in your life, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. You may not want to share your situation with anyone just yet, you are welcome to browse the site and see what others are saying. You may find the answers you need and may not feel the need to go any further. It is my prayer and hope that this network will be a blessing to those in this season for such a time as this. 

HISTORY

I was resting in my bed, getting ready to turn in for the night and God came to me and spoke to me Women of Solitude, I wrote it down and no more was said about it for months. I counsel and minister to a lot of women and I can tell you a lot of them including myself has some things bottled up inside of us that we really can’t trust to many people to know. It became a personal thing with me and I suddenly realized that it became apparent that the women I was counseling with had the same issues (SUPPRESSIVE ISSUES AND THEY WERE SILENTLY HURTING INSIDE). That is when I realized that God was speaking to my heart to reach out to these women.  I begin to speak to God about how to reach these particular women and that how this "NETWORK" evolved. I found out talking to a lot of women most of the time it is fear (the what if’s), sometimes it is anger (I want to act out), sometimes it is our faith (we need assurance), sometimes it fatigue from life’s issues, such as marriage, children, finances, being single and lonely, being a Pastor’s wife and being disrespected as such, family hurts and last but not least church hurts, all these everyday life issues we as women have to face every second, minute, hour. It is a plague that attacking women to cause them not to be able to walk fully in their purpose and destiny.  So God burned my spirit with this "NETWORK" to break that plague, which women need to know that they can continually move themselves forward into the positive light, no matter what forces may be pushing you back.  You are in control of the things that matter most, and that is your key to victory in any situation. One problem does not supersede the other, they are issues that need attention and need to be address.  The message and goals I would like many to accomplish is to replace fear with boldness, anger with laughter, failed faith with renewed and assured faith, replace fatigue with vibrant joy, replace hurts with forgiveness and be victorious. Keep reminding yourself that the earth is the Lord’s and the fullness there of and he wants us to enjoy all the fruits of this earth. Greater is the power within us than the pressure upon us, so hang in there teammate, despite the hard knocks, we are winning.

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HOPE IS

Posted by Shirley Cain on February 14, 2015 at 7:00am 0 Comments

Psalm 119:114 Thou art my hiding place and my shield: I hope in thy word. Uphold me according unto thy word, that I may live: and let me not be ashamed of my hope.

When all around you looks dark, a remainder that the bridge of hope will carry you over the…

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GUARD YOUR HEART

Posted by Shirley Cain on February 13, 2015 at 7:00am 0 Comments

Chronicles 30:9 - For the Lord your God is gracious and merciful, and will not turn away his face from you, if ye return unto him. 

SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT’S BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR LIFE, NOT WHAT’S BEST FOR EVERYBODY ELSE. WHEN PEOPLE HURT YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN, THINK OF THEM LIKE SANDPAPER, YOU END…

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PLANS FOR PURPOSE & DESTINY

Posted by Shirley Cain on February 12, 2015 at 7:00am 0 Comments

Proverbs 21:21 Pursue righteousness & kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor. 

Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination the best is yet to come. Inside of you there is potential for success that is greater than anything you’ve ever imagined. The person you took for granted…

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HOW TO COMBAT LIFE ISSUES

Posted by Shirley Cain on February 11, 2015 at 7:00am 0 Comments

The way we respond to the trials of life reveals a great deal about the strength of our Christian faith. If we deny our troubles, or if we give in to anger or bitterness, or if we blame others for our problems, we miss what God intends to teach us through what happens to us. It is to our advantage to be able to say, “I believe God has allowed this difficulty for my good…

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